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January 5, 2009
January 5, 2009
Predatory Males Organize To Lure Female Passengers Into Bed

With acronym jargon that requires a full set of code to decipher, sexual predators have been organizing in recent years, to lure young women into bed, using a well-identified list of procedures from the first second of the meet, right up to the exit when the deed is done.

Terms that set the tone for what women would call a date, are instead referred to as, "the game, day game, online game, phone text game and social circle game. The common word in each term totally confirms the intent of the predator. He is playing a game, a game to get free, emotionally unattached sex and he is playing to win.

The one element, that is missing from every posting I have seen, was whether or not the desire and needs of the women are met. There are no posts that tell the users how to please a woman, because it is not an element of the "game". This qualifies the "game" as a sexual, predatory, practice by animals on the prowl, and it means many of these men are dangerous.

The predators, working frequently in teams of two men, one acting as a "wing man", not only work to beat down the resistance of the victim, but to lure her away from the friends who with her, using the wing man to render the friends useless. If these seems all pretty "made for Hollywood" to you, think again.

Predatory men, who label themselves "Alpha Males" are taking seminars that range in price from several hundred dollars to several thousand dollars. At these seminars, they learn techniques designed to get a woman into bed and have sex with her.

Beyond that initial seminar, they are joining forums to trade secrets of getting into a woman's pants, and have even set up networks, known as "Lairs" around the world, where they join forces to create teams consisting of one sexual predator and his wing man.

The label "Lairs" pretty much sums up who goes there and why, there is no smoke and mirrors. Though in some forum posts there seems to be a consensus that keeping the books of the trade hidden within the home of the predator is a must.

In one such forum, the men are discussing working on a cruise ship for six months, for the sole purpose of becoming sexual predators on the hunt for female passengers. Why passengers and not crew?

According to the post, savvy crew members say that females only form about the 30% of the crew. All the good ones are spoken for, by crew members with seniority. This leaves only the passengers, with a turn over of new flesh every 3 to 14 days on average.

While one forum member makes the point that the "rules" prevent crew members from socializing with passengers, one intent predator says, "rules are made to be broken". And indeed they are broken, daily.

This information is passed along under the guise of men seeking love. The forum name, The Attraction Forums, sports a logo "Love Systems". Yet, there are very few posts on the boards that indicate anyone is looking for "Love". Hit and run sex is clearly the goal.

Women are routinely disrespected and it is a given that every date will include a "Neg", or negative comment as part of the pitch for sex. It is summed up with the signature line of one users, "If she looks like gold, treat her like silver."

On one site, Casanova Crew, the site is said to have been founded by a man who calls himself "J The Ripper". If that doesn't set an ominous tone for the forum, nothing will. The site covers the geographical area of Los Angeles and Orange County, California, as well as Las Vegas, Nevada. Casanova Crew boasts over 700 members.

The strongest area of the site, is the Field Reports category. Users post what methods and techniques a predator has tried, and has actually field tested for success. An area known as "Advanced Techniques" has a popular move called "Strawberry Fields".

In Strawberry Fields, women are tested to see how "easy" they are, by using a faux situation that has nothing to do with sex. The test goes like this.

Imagine you are alone in a field, and see a strawberry field in front of you with tasty strawberries. There is a fence/gate around the field. How high is it? How you are in the strawberry field, how many strawberries do you take? Ok, after you have finished enjoying the strawberries, how do you feel about the farmer, who's field you took them from?"

All this is suppose to say how sexually promiscuous the woman is, but it really shows how much of a game these men are playing. A woman who takes hundreds of strawberries from the field, surrounded by a low fence is suppose to be "easy" sexually. From that summarization, the pick-up artists, or PUA as they are known, surmises this woman wants sex with him. Without knowing it, the woman has given her consent to sex, and may be surprised to learn, she has sent the wrong signal with her answers to this sexual predator.

Is this something really widespread? The Attraction Forums, just one site of this kind,  claims a user base of over 2,300 members. The forum moderator has posted comments that are offense to most any woman, unless she is a prostitute.

One comments indicates that "it is no wonder so many women get raped", when outlining his procedure for the "online game" and the female response to it. The statement alludes to the fact that a woman with poor judgement deserved to be raped, and in fact brought it on herself.

While this is a problem that is widespread, and doesn't just apply to cruise ships, it is a heads-up to women in general who might believe that men approach dating and sex basically the same way women do. The crassness with which these predator hunt for sex, is a kin to that of animals in the jungle, and has little to do with civilization.

If you doubt the organizational network of these predators, try one of the books listed at the top of this page.